Deeply appreciate the help guys but I am having way too many problems with all of this, tried the VNC 3.7 late last night, couldn't get it to work, tried joining the Ultra vnc forum for help with that version, can't even get an activation email as of yet so I can't join that forum for help. My wife came across this last night,
http://www.pocketgear.com/software_detail.asp?id=16879
so instead of troubling you guys here any everyone else with the vnc project
I am going to try their demo, if it works "efficiently", I will prefer to pay for that as I will be getting "live" Tech help from them, if it doesn't only then will I resort back to vnc, will keep you guys posted on how things goes with the pocketgear software. In the meantime, please look out for my other posts in other threads regarding the problems I am having with the Jornada, thanks.