I don't know how you got the idea from these forums that only the D-Link DWL-650 will work with the Airpanel 100. Lots of cards can work with it - for example, I've used my Agere ORiNOCO Classic Gold with it with no problems. Any Agere-based or Prism-based
(the DWL-650 is an example of the latter
) should work.
There are some programs that enable Pocket PCs to be used as infrared remote controls; some may be made to work on the Airpanel 100, but they must be compatible with Windows CE 4.1 or lower, and will require a few DLL files from the Pocket PC platform
(which, fortunately, are available for download in a few places
).
(Windows Mobile 2003 is based on Windows CE 4.2; however, I've found that a few programs out there for WM 2003 devices were actually written with CE 4.1 as the minimum compatible OS version. Some IR remote control programs, however, were written for Pocket PC 2002 or earlier, which is based on CE 3.0. Since you've posted in the CE 4.x .net/CE 5.0 section, I assume you have CE 4.1 .net on your Airpanel. The Airpanel 100 originally came with a core version of CE 3.0.
)