hpc-hpc 1 click sync? Possible?

If you follow my ramblings I'm in the process of installing Outhouse on my desktop to keep all my CE toys synced. So far, it's been more work than I expected and to be honest, I'd rather leave my desktop out of the picture if I could.

So.....

What 1 click software to sync one CE device to another exists? It has to suppport hpc and ppc, support all types of datastore databases I might have, and hopefully is smart enough or allows me control over what is pushed or pulled from device to device.

I've tried a couple IRDA programs but they are limited, like one contact at a time, or they have no smarts and you get duplicate entries.

I want to do thIs over wifi if possible, IRDA will do if that's all there is.

Suggestions? I'm all ears. Oh yes, free is my preferred pricepoint.