OK update
found the solution to this problem, wifi suddenly stopping working.
btw i noticed it happens only
(but fortunately only sometimes
) when i get to use another network different from the home one. then either the new network won't work or it will work but then when i get home it won't any more
anyway after this problem arises, i'm unable to connect even to my home network.
a long time ago i just edited the IP DNS etc in the registry, but i realized it's just a temporary and very flimsy fix, so uninstalled the driver AND deleted ALL entries from the registry that had something to do with the driver.
(HKLM/drivers/pcmcia ... also HKLM/comm ...!!
)
then SOFT reset & driver reinstall.
everything worked then! woo hoo hehehe